مقالة مترجمة every box contains a constrained number of things, the four corners can’t contain everything, they are devided between several boxes with prioritization the exploration begins In all of them to find what’s most Important, and each of them are equally Important the movement continues. If there wasn’t many boxes the search would be easier but at the same time what’s better wouldn’t be seen. some of them are bigger and have the best at the beginning and others saves the best for the last, there Is no sign with content Inside, everything comes as a surprise. even I there was a sign, the meaning could be misInterpreted to match what’s In the head. the reality Is In what’s chosen, and everyone picks the reality wanted, which feels like a dream with It’s lightness. كل صندوق يحتوي على عدد محدود من الأشياء، ولا يمكن للزوايا الأربع أن تستوعب كل شيء، فهي مقسمة بين عدة صناديق . يبدأ الاستكشاف في جميعها للعثور على الأهم، وكلها متساوية في الأهمية، ويستمر البحث لو لم تكن هنا...
not all things should be taken personal
as a human nature most of us feel the urge to talk to someone when we go through difficult times In life, unfortunately It’s not always the right choice.
the person may subtly enjoy our sadness and act like a helping hand.
by expressing your true emotions you have revealed your weaknesess already that can be used against you anytime. that’s why It’s Important to hold It for yourself even when you feel the need to talk
In normal cases even If the person won’t use It against you, most people are more Interested In what happened to them.
and by expressing It, It makes the case worse and you will start to present yourself as a victim and helpless In front of others.
a good substitue can be writing all of the concerns on a note or do a calming activity like deep breathing, this way you will relief
all the tension without the need to express It to someone
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