relatable life experiences by me

It’s difficult to judge what’s seen on the outside when the window Is broken, the one looking out Isn’t giving Importance and doesn’t try to fix the window, everything looks wrong and Incomplete, even beautiful sights can’t be seen In full. the outside needs to be fixed thinks the person looking out of a broken window,  not willing to make effort to replace or fix th window.  apart from being broken It have many memories attached to It, memories of looking at the things admired through It which makes It hard to get rid of. replacing It with a new window will create new and even better memories, It enters more light and Is bigger, what was seen as big Is now seen as small with a bigger window, nothing Is changed but the ability to see things as they are. with the broken window the person looking out of It was cautious not to break It and to  keep the view of the outside. the view that Is false and Incomplete. 

  presents are felt before they actually arrive, there Is a feeling of happiness without actually knowing what the source Is. there are many presents In the future, and their joy extends to the present. presents of the future take many shapes either big or small, but their effect are similar.  they aren’t like normal presents given by others but as a result actions to deserve them, even If It Isn’t the present desired It’s still a present, they come without waiting and that what makes them special. with the passage of time the person gets used to the gift and It’s challenging to get back to the joy of the first time, but remembering the emptiness before make It easier to be grateful. one gift gives a way for many other gifts that are related, and the mind Is free of waiting for them too, many presents doesn’t require  much In return only to be preserved.  they can come In a time when we thought they aren’t needed, but actually the soul was seeking them wi...

There Is a line for everything In life If crossed It will lose It’s balance, there’s a limit In expressing emotions If crossed It will harm others. there Is a limit In the voice If crossed It won’t be heard no matter how high, the louder the voice the higher the Insecurity Is. there are rules In the words used but those rules aren’t seen by the majority. they are unwritten rules to protect every person. despite being very easy to follow many fails to follow them because there Importance aren’t seen. when crossing the line one time crossing It for the second time will be easier. when there are no obstacles preventing crossing the line the Individual will not fear going over It, and even If the lines are explained there Is a human tendency to do the opposite and even If repeated the violation will get stronger.  same line applies to all when exceptions begins to appear disorder appears, the line that shouldn’t be crossed should be applied to everyone no matter how close the person Is...

  to not feel guilty the truth Is hidden and swept under the rug, the sounds of joy and laugher Is filling the place, a loud sound to reduce the sound of Inner guilt. In the mind of the guilty the truth come and go hunting the good moments, but there Is still resistance to accept It. after a while even the feeling of guilt Is gone, and life Is resumed like normal, everything Is going In their favor and there Is no punishment, this Is only temporary for sooner or later what Is deserved Is received. there Is no permanent rest for the guilty, as there Is a debt to be repaid and If It’s not repaid the debt will be like a tie around the person In debt unable to breath correctly,   the truth Is a loud sound and lies tries to be louder than the truth, despite the loud sound some people choose to not hear It the truth doesn’t need to be repeated because the one who chooses to see It will see It, and repetition doesn’t help.

In the cold winter months most of birds Immigrate to warmer lands, one of the birds Isn’t actually at risk during the cold, It can be endured but the other birds insisted that all go In the same direction. after a day they got to the warmer land all are more energetic and started to sing again, the one bird that wasn’t happy leaving and didn’t sing.   but after the season ends they will go back to the land they are used to again and that’s what makes the unhappy bird patient. when they flied back to their land the unhappy bird felt at ease again where the trees and sounds are known and familiar. there was a white bird that saw how the sad bird Is alive again just by flying back. the white bird approached and said there Is a joy In returning to the place that Is considered home after a long time being away. the other bird started to look It from a different point of view, It makes the homeland more valuable and something to look forward to.

  there are many lights on the roads, during dark nights only the strongest lights will help people get to their destination, It’s exactly what they need. however dark It Is the light will always make It easier, but for how long does the light stay? It finishes and Is replaced with darkness again no matter how good. most of people seeks a light that Is durable, and avoid darkness as much as they can, maybe all the lights aren’t durable but their energy can be saved.  whenever one runs out of light It can be reinforced by memory, It’s not always about seeking but also spreading light to others, they need It just as much. It can be spread even without a word by being a good example people get help from, and when there Is light within It spreads to others. many things reduces the light within, when avoided the light will continue to guide the self and others.

  there Is a mixed feeling that comes with the sound of the wind a feeling of calm and loneliness, there Is something In the wind that reminds of loneliness.  It’s a sign that the place Is empty and there Isn’t much noice that distracts from It’s sound. maybe someone In another street Is also feeling the same thing thinking about the loneliness, but Is It only In this moment? or Is It always that one Is lonely and the wind came as a reminder of It because It’s when one need others most. people come and go but the one alone sits still, waiting for people to end the loneliness, but It Isn’t a matter of waiting but approaching. many are very busy to notice someones loneliness and not to be blamed, others are the cause of It because they don’t appear when their appearance Is much valued.  breaking the lonliness doesn’t take much effort, a simple conversation and connection makes a big difference.

  the massage the eyes tries to send Is a reflection of self, the eyes that looks down on someone doesn’t mean that the other Is In a lower position, but It’s the false thought of being above. the eyes that looks down will someday be looked down on, the world Is a hierarchy there Is always a level above. everyone Is In the middle not above nor under anyone. with the acknowledgement of being In the same level as others, there will be no hurting words and no one to look up to and no envy. as bad as looking down on someone Is looking up Is equally dangerous, making one sees only one glamours side of a person and Ignore all the negatives, It will turn one to only a follower. many times the eyes communicates wrongly causing a big misunderstanding, It can communicate hate even when not Intended or liking when not meaning It, It sends stronger signals than what’s actually Inside. what Is felt from the look Is a matter of Inner work and It doesn’t necessarily mean It’s on purpos...

  attacks requires fast defense, there Is no room for doubts like I can’t It’s more powerful than me, In sudden moments of attacks all reserved power comes Into action, the more predicted they are the faster the response Is. than another self doubt comes, what If I lose all the power of self defense? actually even when It’s lost It can come again by practice. the art of self defense Isn’t born In one night, and It doesn’t equal aggression, It  can be practiced with silence as well as words.  In nature every animal have their own way of self defense, some changes It true colors to defend themselves, even when It’s not their true Identity the create a temporary Identity just to survive. for many humans the power to defend themselves Is higher than defending others, they are less concerned as long as the attack doesn’t hit them. despite that there are still people who defend others like they are defending themselves, even If not many.

  an old man was lost In a deserted Island, his grandson left him all alone, he had to find away alone everytime the old man hears noise he get excited that there Is someone that Is going to rescue him but It’s the noise of trees moved by the wind. and many times he saw what looked like a boat from a far but unfortunately It’s not  the days continued with those scenes and false hopes, until It really happens. a real boat came to rescue but the old man. the old man was really grateful for the rescuer and offered him a coconut he found in the Island. on the way he told him about the disappointments at the Island and how many times he had false hopes of being rescued. the rescuer was listening to him attentively, then said to him, what you call false hope Is what kept you alive, until everything Is back to normal.

  true words don’t need to be forced, they just flow naturally. when forcing the truth a lie comes and there Is nothing real that comes with force. a good moment Isn’t forced It comes naturally. It comes without waiting, the joy that comes with surprise Is even more Impactful that Is planned. a great Idea comes like a suddenly blooming flower, In reality It didn’t bloom suddenly but as a result of watering and a fertile land. an unexpected journey will be more fun, because there Is no time wasted waiting for It to happen. waiting ruins the good moments, to make an end to the waiting many things need to be clarified, after It’s clarified the wait either stops or continues. gifts wether material or not are given out of free will and appreciation, but somebody might give to get personal advantages, and use giving to control. there are other sources to get the same and the giver loses power of being the only giver having other options always gives greater power.

  on a nice day a young girl stood by the pet store window, she finally got the permission from family members to get a cat, she looked at all the cats In the pet shop and got attracted to a little gray cat. she took care of the cat and was highly responsible, the cat was always friendly with all family members, only one day the girl forgot to feed the cat and fed him when late. the cat started to get aggressive and caused much damage, despite that all helped each other to get the cat friendly again. no one of them knew that the cat used It as an excuse to be free again.   there are a-lot of sudden changes without a clear explanation of why they happened, and the cause of change explained Is different from the real cause. It requires alertness to know the real cause, the one hiding the true cause Is escaping from being an open book, even If a person Isn’t an open book some near will manage to read It and understand It

  happiness doesn’t know good or evil person, It knows people who believe In It no matter how bad.   there are twisted roads to happiness that only the evil Inside knows, sadness will never hit a bad person because of lack of empathy.  they might have a big circle of people around because of lies. but the circle get smaller and smaller as lies are discovered. the evil Inside believe that they never deserve sadness and forget the pain caused to others, they wait to be helped by others without helping others. they lend a fake helping hand and when the person tries to hold It they draw back the hand, It’s a lesson to not easily trust any helping hand, not everyone wants equal happiness for others. there Is equal happiness for everyone but In different timing, and every good deed will be rewarded In the future no matter how simple the Idea of equality Is hated by the Evil, they always want to be the only one others look up to and no one else

  a year that goes by without having a real different experience Is a year wasted. a year that ends without having a few close people during happy and sad times Is a year wasted. a year that ends without helping anyone In anyway It’s a year wasted.  a year that ends without learning from past mistakes Is a year wasted.  there’s a new year coming. new chances and new places, people and experiences. what’s good Is staying and what’s bad Is left behind. each year Is entered with more good  than bad. each year will be better as one grows better, with more control. a new year have many challenges to test the growth. a new year won’t for certain be without tears without losses, but there will be what makes It easier with each year we get rid of many obstacles standing In the way and start a new blank page. there may be good and bad chapters but the year will be remembered for the dominant emotions.  

  a building In a big city needed to be completed within a month, most of workers worked hard to achieve It, floor by floor until It’s finished, then a worker with minimum contribution brought the glass-windows and made the final touch, they were big windows that let In alot of sunlight . In the end when the project Is finished and people started to live In It what Is noticed Is the big windows, It doesn’t matter how much time It took the beautiful final touch Is what Is most noticed. what wins In the end Is what Is visible to the eyes not the hard work behind. and hard work without Impact Is gone with the wind. a builder will have to look at the building from the perspective of a future Inhabitant and not continue the hard work that’s not beneficial. builders usually get orders on how It’s supposed to look, but they can disagree of illogical orders and voice their opinions In the benefit of people. the result Is happy people In their new places because of workers who hav...

stillness Is a picture seen from two perspectives, It can be either be seen as a calming picture or depressing. the same thing which make It calming which Is lack of movement can be seen as depressing for some. stillness even when leading to no advancement, It also means rest from unnecessary movements. stillness Is power, to see everything moving and to be comfortable In freezing for a moment. the beauty of pictures Is the beauty of a moment, regardless what’s before and what’s after, but life Isn’t all like the picture.  sad and stressing moments are rarely captured on camera, the result Is a perfect picture of the past, even when a picture seems to capture a happy moment some smiles are forced just for the sake of a picture. a forced smile on a picture will quickly turn Into the previous state, the most authentic photos are captured without knowing where there Is no time to pretend for something that Isn’t felt. photos taken without us knowing uncovers emotions once f...

  sometimes we see anger In others and on the contrary they are calm, the anger seen Is just a reflection of the stress Inside, If the Inside Isn’t In a normal state It won’t see others correctly, only a dark version of others will come Into surface.  the correct view sees the both sides, the dark and bright side of fellow humans, and don’t Immediately remove the person from the circle everything seen Is a reaction, and the root cause of It may remain a mystery, the reaction can be to a previous occurrence and came Into light In the present.  like a building that Isn’t affected by storm a stable person stands against negative reactions. some experiences sounds unrealistic until experienced, they were laughed at because they were far from reality as thought, the unnecessary anger we hated on others Is beginning to show on us. the human tries hard to hide It because It only hurts the wrong targets, and after the storm Is over only destruction and regret will be le...

  the eye can only endure soft light that Is easy to look at and doesn’t cause pain. It guides but In a soft way, In a way protective of the eyes. on the contrary some of what Is seen Is only a light shadow and Isn’t the original guide, a shadow that disappears In any minute, following the shadow Instead of light will leave the way Incomplete. the original light continues and never leaves halfway making sure the guided person got to what Is desired, It may seem too good to be true but It’s just the person Isn’t used to real light yet. as a result of knowing the true light there won’t be room for any shadows, they only trick the ones who haven’t seen what’s real, walking from a person to another shadows aims to target the weakest victims. In the worst cases the same victim Is tricked many times by the same shadow, each time the shadow changes a little to trick the victim.   all forms of shadows revealed make the targeted more conscious a consciousness that Is a shi...

  a group of people settled on a ship, they had a long way ahead the ocean was very long and It takes days to end, each one decided to spend the long journey In their own way. some like to spend It watching the surroundings, others likes getting to know people In the journey, both ways are right at the time. the new captain Is egocentric and a passenger can’t fight him, the one’s who managed to deal with the captain are the ones who have support. the whole journey continued without someone fighting with the captain despite the injustice against them, but one of the bravest passengers managed to speak up against him. It was hard  because of the few supporters the captain have.  unfortunately the ship sank because of a strong storm, afterwards the new ship have a new supporting captain, all the passengers on the ship were on the same page and the journey went on peacefully. It’s Important that everyone In the journey Is In harmony, If not the ship will lose balance,...

  It’s normal that a road has ups In downs, but the closer the ups and downs are the more tiring It Is, It comes to a point where the ups aren’t causing joy any more and downs aren’t causing sadness. the world becomes virtual with no real happenings, and everything disappears afterwards like It wasn’t there. It disappears when noticed too late. being observant makes a person catch experiences and feelings before being too late, the five senses are open to whatever comes In the way. sometimes even when arriving late everything Is still the same, same emotions and same passion, they were there all along. there comes a more peaceful time where ups and downs are less frequent and the road Is more stable, this will continue for a long time and the road won’t go back to as It was before, It’s like a nightmare that ended. time feels unlimited, and there Is freedom to Invest It In whatever feels Important, Judgements are from the past now, and there are no evil eyes watching. ev...

  there are different Labels sat to the same person by many people the label may be smart, naive, kind, and many contradicting labels, the only one who know what the true Label are Is oneself. the strong human have the true labels that complies with their spirit and doesn’t wait to  be labeled, the labels chosen are stronger than the external labels. there Is no true Identity In external labels, only labels that changes with time and following them will lead to nowhere. one day It’s stupid another day It’s wise. It’s shocking how completely different they are from the true Identity. the one who judge wants It stuck and repeat It to make the judged believe It, another day comes and washes  away all previous judgements, they are limited to time and emotions. negative emotions produces negative judgments and positive emotions produce positive judgements on the same human/subject, they aren’t stamps and can be changed many times.  what one day Is seen as Inter...

  there Is a desired ending narrated In the mind that It consumes much of the time, a desired happy ending where the dream happens. one does everything to make the happy ending a reality, It’s a long lost treasure to be found. the treasure map shows the long way to the treasure. the map Is fake trap and don’t lead to any treasure. the searcher decides to search for the treasure without a map and only follow the Instinct. the search wasn’t easy there wasn’t one near but after a long way the searcher finally sees a glow from a box that Is attracting, It’s the treasure. not everyone looks for the same treasure, and therefore there Is no competition In the treasure and there Is one for everyone. not everyone gives the same value to a treasure and It will be taken by the one that value It the most, there’s a mutual waiting between the searcher and the treasure, the treasure waits for the passionate searcher and the searcher waits until the desired treasure Is found.

  there are many hard life questions that makes one speechless and unable to really answer It. there Is a possible answer but It Isn’t said because It’s uncertain.   one question could bring many feelings and memories, that are hard to hide when forced to react In another way. many moments requires an opposing answer to the true answer to prevent a difficult outcome, and many times to say the truth Is better than hiding from the outcome. the feeling of freedom Is satisfying no matter the road that leads to It, nothing Is scary anymore, and there Is no need to run from anything.  words are right when directed to the right place, In the right time and one have the complete right to say them without being restricted. the long heard words Inside have a great Importance and they are In the thoughts for a reason and have to be let out. It’s a way to determine who deserves to stay and who not, who truly respect us and who not.  true words let out the truth from ...

  some things Inside are unchangeable In a person and trying to change them Is an Impossible mission, the darkness can never be turned to light. there might be a temporary change making It feel as It’s an actual change, but thing go back to normal quickly.  all the hate and fury Inside a human Is hard to change, unless things change permanently. a lot of patience needed until the moment  come, the moment of better change. no matter how beautiful the view Is something will always distract from seeing the view, like obstacles that one can’t get rid off . without trying to fight the obstacles, many obstacles disappears without fighting, they have a specific lifespan and disappears right after. It Isn’t clear at first when It disappears and because of lack of patience the fight continue, draining all the energy and time. the time spent on fighting a temporary obstacle Is a wasted time. with many occurrences It become clear what fights to avoid, because using ener...

  everything Is easier when a person or a place doesn’t have Importance,there Is no hurting and no waiting either as It doesn’t have any Importance.  the hardest battle Is making what’s Important to us unimportant, when It’s related to a person everything they do Is seen bigger than It’s actually Is. with lack of Importance comes lack of problems and misunderstandings, because Interpretations are no longer a big deal, the disappearance of unimportant things leave no Impact, they leave without searching for It or trying to have It back as hurtful setting value to people and places Is It’s necessary for faith and hope that sometimes It’s actually worth It. the value grows with each positive Interaction, and the attachment grows bigger.  most of the times when we value something we become valued as well, It represent our true worth. appreciation Is communicated differently some ways never reach the other person. like the sun In late autumn and winter It’s seen but n...