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the dragon everyone feared

In the medieval ages there was a dragon everyone In the village feared, the dragon puts fires on the whole city and everyone Is It’s target. except one who knew that the dragon only puts fire because he feels like a monster and he continue to behave that way because nobody Is going to change that picture In their mind the only boy who didn’t get burned from the dragons fire Is the one who didn’t fear It Instead tried to play with It. everyday the boy ride the dragon like two best friends. the village residents asked the boy how they became friends. I’m the only one who didn’t fear him he replied, he didn’t feel different that’s why he got comfortable with me.

the tone of voice

tone of voice Is a weapon without extra effort, the tone of voice hides many emotions behind, sometimes uncontrollable. even a mature human can lose control of the tone of voice unfolding the mask that Is worn for a long time. It’s a real guide we can use, that guides us to the truth, a truth that maybe was known before but Is now confirmed. high voice Is a curtain people hide behind to hide weakness, In this world many voices are lowered that should be heard, and many high voices should be lowered. a week voice gets used by others, seeking to get ahead, In the end no one wins every situation. the best thing In live Is balance, to balance between high voice and low voice, as needed. and not getting stuck In a certain area only our Instinct knows what the situation need,and It should be followed

mornings are more real

when the first rays of sun comes In all the creatures opens a new blank chapter with the most real version of themselves, then comes events that fills this chapter wether for better or worse, It becomes difficult to keep It blank, unless they notice what prevents It. all that fills the blank chapter Is now removed, and the blank chapter becomes a stable state there Is nothing that needs to be filled, a chapter with too many words make It hard to process, the more the chapter Is filled the less space there Is, and space Is Important for continuity a space to evolve and think, to evaluate everything and remove what’s unnecessary. to fill the next chapter with more Important things. and the next day comes things that are more Important and take the place of previous ones. priorities takes different shape every day, following the changing nature of the universe.

from a distance

nothing Is completely sure from a distance a submarine may look like a whale from a distance, making people far terrified, coming closer to objects makes us understand them more, and therefore they become less terrifying coming closer clears all misunderstanding or reassures our concerns. the one who Is closer never regret making the wrong judgment. at both cases It’s a winning situation If It’s better when getting closer It’s real as fake things often gets uglier when moving closer to It. the beautiful sight In this case Is just a trap and Is meant to trick people and never recognize It’s true look until too late. but even when It’s too late there Is still time to change the path and move away. the power Is still within to choose there Is a power no one can take away no matter how hard,

clear sight

an old woman who Is blind went to a store very near where she lived by herself with the help of her excellent memory and a method she learned by her grand daughter, the store owner greeted her, do you have flowers here? I want real flowers for my grand daughter, she said the owner noticed that she Is blind and replied that the flowers are original and charged her extra money for it. before paying the old lady stopped for a while and touched the flowers, she could feel that they are not real flowers i bet they are not real flowers she said, I won’t take them. It’s right that I’m blind but I can still feel the truth.

going back In time

going back In time to change the fate, but time never changes a person the person going back Is still the same the same situations happens and nothing change, but going back one more time the events just happened In front of my eyes without actually experiencing It. just taking notes for my future self. the more I go back to the past the more of a story It Is and not a feeling writing not only the bad but also happy events to be used as a tool for therapy In hard times with all the notes I go back to the present fully equipped with what needed to fight future challenges

shyness

shyness Is one of the most beautiful things anyone can wear, It’s shows the purity of the soul and sincere emotions. to the contrary of arrogance, shyness Is a sign of complete modesty, that the shy person doesn’t see themselves above anyone, but It’s always mixed with arrogance as the two attributes are similar on the outside. when the Inside of the person Is unfolded It’s easier to seperate shyness from arrogance. there’s so much In the Inside world we don’t see and can be hard to see. the easiest way for a human to avoid the unknown Is to make judgements, not only Is laziness physical but also mental. all the person needs Is empathy, empathy Is the most powerful tool to understand what’s Inside the person and prevents us from falling In false judgments about others. empathy let us understand the softness behind the hard and the taruma behind the behaviour.

climbing a mountain

there was a tradition among a tribe to choose one man of them to climb mount everest, whoever succeed In the mission becomes the tribes next leader the man chosen was known as weak and all men In the tribe became shocked that he was chosen. the man accepted the challenge and headed to the mountain to reach It’s top, every progress seems so small In his eyes, but those at the bottom could see how far he came. until he reached the top he couldn’t see his progress at all. all the people watching at the bottom was shouting his name and were happy for his victory. when he came down the leader honored him and said: I chose climbing because It requires all the qualities needed In a good leader, and you proved that.

timing of words

not only words have meaning, but the timing of words Is equally Important. the timing can have a competing reason. It’s chosen especially to weaken another person the person studies the target comprehensively to choose when to say the their words It’s especially done when the victim Is In a happy state, to transform their state, eveything Is planned In advance everything follows the same pattern when It’s frequent the plan Is revealed that the planner can no longer continue with It

false memory

a dark memory that weakens a person and keeps coming around, the memory Is a false sense of previous reality. It only responds to what we actually want to memorize, It’s not always a good guide to follow. the one who takes memory as a way to judge may get lost. even when right nothing stays as It was. putting same two persons In different circumstances gives different results. making a reaction based on previous occurrence Is Irrelevant It Is the major source of problems to follow a bad memory. many doors closes just because we think It’s the same as It was without giving It a second chance.

the only girl In the city

In a city far away a century ago a girl In her youth decided to move to the city which Is known being Inhibited by only men. when the day of her journey came her relatives said goodbye to her and were really worried . after a period of time she wrote the first letter to her parents and relatives and reassured them she Is ok and that the men teached her many valuable skills like archery and self defence. the girl stayed for a year which completely changed her as a person. when she came back to her home town the face of her family and friends lit up, how did you manage to live there for a whole year? the girl answered: a girl can choose when to be masculine and when to be feminine and that’s what helped me

on Introvertness

a living creature can’t be kept In a jar, even with necessities Inside. the higher needs are kept outside, needs that can’t be replaced with anything . the soul Is enriched by gaining the best both from outside and Inside, outside holds Intangible needs, necesseties residing In the unconscious. these are unnoticed until gone, before needing It It’s existing seems normal and the probability of loosing It Is far away. outside of the jar there Is a world of many challanges yet blessing, just to be part of It Is rewarding.

one small black mark

exaggeration makes one small black mark seem like a huge one, the eyes sees everything bigger than It actually Is. there Is no life with no black marks, they are unavoidable just as they are unavoidable they aren’t constant either. they can be transformed to white with alot of patience and learning but when turned to white there will appear new black marks that should be turned to white. and so on It’s a neverending circle until death

familiarity

darkness Is at It’s highest rate at the first sight, the eyes get used to It with time It becomes less dark, frequency creates familiarity even with uncomfortable situation just because one Is familiar with It doesn’t mean It’s comfortable. to reach familiarity Is to lose power and motivation to change. this state benefits the narcissist who aims to steal power from threatening oponents . familiarity Is a false feeling of security, that makes one blind to big opportunities and unwilling to see the bad In the present. many forces In life tries to make us feel familiar to make sure we aren’t moving forward. despite all forces we must wake up from this state.

changing topics

there are specific types of topics that touches each one of us yet polite people tries to get along with topics that Interest the other person leaving more room for them. getting along with others Interests no matter what they are Is much appreciated. despite this some conversations hardly flows and other conversations flows like a running river, we are mistaken that It’s our fault the conversation Isn’t flowing, but It’s an act of give and take, what’s not received can’t be given the right flow will leave positive marks afterwards , making It a good reference to come back to both sides will benefit and no one will lose.as there Is no trace of offence or competition In a genuine conversation the only goal Is to agree everything said Is of value and no word Is pointless, It happens when two wise minds collaborate to get the best out of the talk. this In turn may lead one of them to take a positive action or both of them In the right direction.

meaning behind words

the human mind Is born to understand what’s around as It Is without going any deeper Into It, after many stumbles the way of thinking shifts to deeper look at things what’s being told and what’s seen can have further meaning, the five senses are just a tool to receive. they aren’t fully reliable themselves In modern times our senses are subjected to many Illusions from various directions and only the mind can fight them each one who defeat those Illusion becomes a master of their own life and senses. and any further attempt to manipulate the senses will fail. the source of manipulation will try to weaken the recipient and sees awarness as a threat, the more aware people are the harder the actions.

better old version

old versions are always seen as worse, remembering only the bad aspects of It, but the old version didn’t experience the weight of overthinking the present Is what only matter to the old version, recovering faster from unpleasent situations, and better at feeling joyful from the simple things. the world was still colourful and no darkness could change that, It Is lack of responsibilities that made the world colourful good qualities of the old version should be transmitted to the new one. yet naivness was dominant In the past, holding on to every person that display a trace of friendliness. the disappearence of real people make It easier to fall Into the trap of fake real one . with time the new version won’t fall Into the trap of unreal people, and will catch the evil vibe quickly

the wind effect

the wind Is a powerful tool to blow It all away good and bad. a feeling of weight lifted from the body. now It’s a full space for new better experiences , better opportunities, people all seem In your favour when faced with past situations It doesn’t have similar Impact, reactions are calmer. what once was triggering Is now meaningless, It goes with the wind and never comes back head feels lighter, and the whole body feels flexible.but all of It could be a disaster when the good Is taken with the wind. the good might never return and evil resides for the rest of the life as the only reality.

the present absent

the world Is for realistic people, absence of mind Is unaccepted and Is seen as a case that must be treated, the absent minded spend most of life getting treated from something that can be beneficial to the world It means that the thoughts are so big that It’s distracting the person holding them. and most likely more Important that the things being said or done. these thoughts must be transfered Into reality or the Imagination has no meaning but a waste of time. In fact both realistic and imaginative people are needed as a two pieces that complete eachother realistic people are helping hand to the Imaginative to take the final steps to make the unrealistic real

hunting self Interest

like hunting, some humans runs after self Interest, the process might Involve a victim to achieve that. It doesn’t matter who the victim are to the hunter what matters Is only the target. the same target could be achieved without hunting, but the easiest way Is to hunt. and most take the easy way. the one achieving their target by hunting will think they are doing better than others just because they arrived faster people struggeling just because they took the longer road will think they aren’t good enough, but because the long road Is clean they will enjoy their success. the success will last for the long road takers and won’t last for the short road takers. what’s begun on wrong can’t last

unheard thoughts

a lot of thoughts pass by unheared by others, stuck In It’s place , those thought’s are dark and shouldn’t be revealed It’s hardly covered with fake kindness. but something In the eyes of the person holding dark thoughts reveals some of It, yet can’t be accused because there Isn’t a clear evidence. many chances will be lost because of the thoughts Inside. because no one with darkness Inside can be lucky forever, and no Injustice can stay. they are rarely admitted and therefore can’t be resolved. It’s a silent damage yet It’s traces stays for very long. the roots of an unpure heart Is the mind and stimulants. for what’s In the mind Isn’t always our thoughts.

different people In one human

each person requires a different personality It’s not only our personality that defines our reactions but It also has a lot to do with the person In front of us, If someone Is Insulting It will lead to defensive reaction, and with compatible person our true personality will show. regaining our personality many reactions may be far from our true personality and our usual reactions, that needs to be controlled not all changes In the road are bad taking a different road Isn’t always bad , the road may be better than the usual one, It may be required In tough situations and lead to the desired goal. what Is gained from consistency when a person Is consistent, It means the person Is strongly tied to the values and believes held Inside and that will gain the respect of others, and also consistency leads to discipline.

the bad unknown

the unknown can’t be bad until reached , judgmental nature preassumes It’s bad even before reaching It. being an unclear place, It can be sun and It can be rain. or why not mix of both . just as the known Is a mix of both but one thing for sure Is the unknown Is shaped from the known. the transition Is requiring the accumulated knowledge from the past. not only accumulated knowledge but also accumulated feelings carried Into the unknown the lighter It Is the easier the transition often the unknown Is mistaken as a cause of anexiety but It’s what’s carried In the way. It can’t be reached with an unhealed spirit. the transition phase can be felt as a period of emptiness because fimiliarity with the past even If It wasn’t the most colourful period. but healing and fixing every taruma from the past makes It easier With the transition. pe

our Inner world

immersed in ones Inner world that there Is no attechment to something In the outer world , every event Is seen from the perspective of an observer. the observer doesn’t reduce the Importance of planning ahead as It makes the road clearer. but have faith and patience with everything on the way the Inner world Is an observers way of dealing with the long way ahead. It contains many Interests and dreams . It’s mostly active at night when engaged In least activity,the Inner world will be felt more, and It’s important to keep It a peaceful place to go back to. when kept peacful It will be felt many people and therefore keeps many people near. everytime our Inner world changes people In our life changes. people who once used to match are no longer a good match and was a good match to the old self. the truest ones are the ones that get along with our new self.

standing with the truth

standing with the truth becomes more and more difficult as people become more self concerned. trying to defend the truth Is seen as an unnecessary battle. by taking an approach of silence humanity get tricked that It’s peace, but peace can’t be achieved unless truth Is defended. otheres may not Interfere not because lack of courage but because of support of Injustice and the liking of the situation, nothing wrong Is seen therefore they don’t Interfere. It’s the duty of humankind to fix what’s wrong. for If everyone looked and moved on nothing will change In the world and all the cruel behaviour will continue through generations. Intentions are very Important, the person who chooses to follow the right path should only be motivated by good Intentions and not to seek popularity.

keeping balance Is hard

standing on many pillars all of them are essential to keep balance. we may succeed temporary than shifting focus only to one pillar or two will make us lose balance and fall. at different phases one pillar Is given more Importance than others, based on many reasons . than the rest of time Is spent on re gaining stability. It’s all pillars comined that completes the life and make It worth living . and takes advantage of all what life has to offer. there are observed changes In the personality of the person achieving It , more confidence and satisfaction

unsincere complements

Hello! said an old friend of mine smiling at me while I was walking. I stopped for a while to shift my focus on her, It’s my friend from high school , I smiled back. It’s a good concidece to see you here she said where are you Intending to go? just going to do some grocery shopping my replay was, you can come with me If you can yes, of course and I can tell you on our way of many things that happened while we were apart, by the way you’ve got much prettier. thank you I said looking shy, after we finished shopping we walked home together, actually may father got In trouble he Is In the hospital right now and the paycheck Is not an amount we can pay, could you lend me and she said the amount. I accepted out of good Intention, but luckily I’ve met her sister the next day, Im so sorry for what happened to your father I hope he will get well soon I began my talk she was extremely surprised and asked what are you talking about. than I told he...

waste of knowledge

when Is knowledge wasted? when It’s used for abuse using knowledge to show supermecy over others Is a type of Intellectual bullying where the person bullying try to talk Intelligently on purpose to make the other feel less and Incompetent not sharing It with others people need the knowledge In order to build on It and result something even bigger It’s not to be kept , when not shared it dies with the person holding It. unupdated knowledge the world Is fastly changing and so Is the knowledge, In order to stay on track one must stay updated In the latest knowledge. too much Information being Informed In many areas Is good, but when the mind Is subjected to too much Information It will be hard to process all the Information. thinking about the use of the Information before being subjected to It Is a good place to start.

dealing with toxicity

some toxity faced In life can’t be avoided. the problem Isn’t just toxic people but our Insecurities. every one of them can have a side we can learn from, and we can view toxity from different perspectives the way to patience one purpose of crossing path with toxic people Is simply to be patient , to boost out self confidence It’s not because of being naive, and self blame Is not a solution. better decisions In the future without knowing what to be avoided we can’t make accurate desicions, after a while the more the person knows what environments and people to avoid learning gratitude getting rid of toxic people makes us appreciate life more the noise Is now quiteness and peace, gradually we regain our faith In people but continuing being cautious. to be cautious Is not being overly doubting, but It’s to keeping a part of you to yourself

why some ridicule everything

the pshycology of ridiculing most likely, we all have met the type of person who tend to ridicule everything In the surroundings, from objects to people. nothing seem beautiful or worthy In their eyes. for example: making fun of poems or habits. being around this type of people drains motivation and energy, their Irony will take away the beauty of thing. their justification would be that they are being realistic, but In fact they are just being pessimistic. but what could be the reasons behind this behaviour? It could be because of lack of confidence In the person so the person will ridicule everything that Is actually good to feel better. another common reason Is that the person actually Is critical by nature and don’t accept things easily.

how things appear

on the outside everything Is a dimond that shines In the eyes of some. each one of us has specific standards. some standards grows with the person and some fade away. a human doesn’t require standards for everything the right standards lift us high , they Increase self respect and others respect for us. It doesn’t mean to be picky but It reflects our understanding of ourselves and what matches us. this saves time wasted In the wrong situations even before getting Involved. they are relevant to all aspects of our life, for private life and career. and It make It easier to take desicions based on the standards available. many pressures may be faced from many directions to lower the standard, those pressures need to be avoided, unless they need some amendments.

explicit Injustice

at the reception the line was crowded And I was patiently waiting for my turn there were a family In front of me who were from different cultural background. execuse me how can I help you? the receptionist said with face expressions contrary with what she is trying to hide there were the barrier of language she couldn’t understand them and they couldn’t fully understand her either. not only the barrier of language was present but also the emotional barrier, the receptionist looked at them with dissrespect. It’s not only her fault to dissrespect people from different background but the environment that programed her that people should behave and dress In a certain way to be respected. but what’s respectful for some cultures might not be the case In other cultures. peoples cultures are part of their pride and If their culture Isn’t respected their pride Is hurt

consulting words

the power of written words written stories withdraws us from our world and make us enter the feelings of the writer, a great story comes with a great moral In the end. the reader Is Inspired and moved after reading a good book. every character In the story Is a reflection of the writer, and people tend to be drawn to writers with similar perspectives In life everybody feel a sense of relief when reading especially after reading a story with the same experiences you faced, the activity of writing Is a journey of self exploration, things that are hard to say otherwise to reveal the true self on paper Is safer than revealing It to anybody. even when written the true feelings of the writer are hidden behind metaphores and different characters

unanswered emotions

emotions dry out day after day, If they aren’t answered . It put out the flame of anger or the flame of excitement. until the state of apathy Is reached, nothing causes joy nor sadness. the death of emotions Is death of humanity, for some emotions are the result of empathy. the transitions between emotions Is what builds life. state of apathy may continue as a defence mechanism but may Include the Innocent. the Innocent will also respond to apathy with apathy and the circle continues, our emotions aren’t one way It pass through from a person to person. If the one person starts with positive emotions It will be circulated to many. selfcontrolled people doesn’t pass down negative emotions only positive. being a useful person Isn’t only related to material things and productivity, but also adding a spiritual value and joy.

the fight between thoughts

the fight between thoughts two contracting thoughts comes to the mind they change during the day, they fight to be the dominant one, one as bright as sunshine and the other dims the light of the soul. maybe It’s impossible that only one will win. both will stay. their dominance varies among people that will reflect on their energy, the secret Is to embrace both of them knowing that no one of them Is permanent, therefore energies also change. one temporary energy can’t give the whole picture, an energy can be only a reaction to surroundings, which Is the real source. the source has to be cleaned If It spreads darkness In the atmosphere.