relatable life experiences by me

   courage Is often linked with actions, big actions, while the smallest actions also takes courage, It’s not about facing only but also about avoiding, to cut the strongest ties and break free. the strong ties makes It hard to move, the ones that only serves one end, the one winning from the strong tie will grasp It with all the power, It becomes harder to resist. the tie that got stronger with years Is a source of suffocation, and Is no longer serving. It was built with manipulation and lies, where one Is not proud of the tie, but It serves In boasting the ego. on the other end there Is a person who struggles for years with the tie and surrender to It thinking other ties are worse. but the person In the other end finds a knife and will find the right time to cut the tie quickly without effort, the choice of a knife Is to cut the tie completely and not just loosen It.  just by cutting the dangerous tie everything start to feel lighter, with more enjoyment and...

  there Is always something to look forward to, the emotions of excitement Is what’s worth living, the pictures In mind of future happy moments makes the present even better. along with the excitement comes a little fear that things will go In the opposite of the Imagination, that the Imagination Is too big and unrealistic, then the person falls Into reality. the bigger the excitement the stronger the fall. everything Isn’t as It’s usual state and looking forward to something Is just looking forward for It’s previous state. In the dictionary of excitement there Is no change and everything stays as beautiful as It was, If the excitement originates from the past than It’s not worth It,  as the past Is In the past. like flowers which loses It’s beauty over years, some things also looses their beauty with the passage of time.  one doesn’t expect to see a flower as It was many years ago, It’s color Is affected by the time  and Is turned to different color. the...

  In the world of animals the flock follows the leader of the flock that should lead them Into  a  safe place. they stay In the flock the whole road because leaving It Is equal to dangers. the flock Is big and only for protection, but the smaller the flock Is the closer the animals In It are and the better the connection. the strength of the flock doesn’t come from It’s size but from the closeness of the animals In It and the connection between them. In a big flock an animals gets lost between the many other animals and don’t get enough focus, while In a small one If one gets a threat It will spread fast among others, and It’s easier to continue with the same number. the animals In a small flock gets so close It’s hard to connect with any animal outside, as all the animals outside are considered as a threat, they begin to do the same behaviors Influenced by each-other. they don’t have a decision to follow or not It’s done quickly and for survival, naturally anim...

  on a nice afternoon a young boy was walking In a street  of many buildings and very little plants, but the boy always Imagined that there was a big beautiful garden surrounded with variety of trees and flowers. the boy told his sister excited about the Idea and how wonderful It would be to turn It Into reality. the boy grew up with the dream and Invested In planting his dream garden and got approval for It. he bought seeds for planting orange trees and then the garden grew bigger with olive trees and many other fruitful trees. the young generation grew up with the garden existing as a result of a boys Imagination. many of them grew up to work In It and earn a living. the garden Is now a reality lived, sometimes accepting reality as It Is leads to the death of Imagination.  there Is another better reality that can be lived In the future , It starts with a picture In mind or a word not yet true. when working with It It becomes true.  with the Imagination of many peop...

  the ear longs to hear satisfying words, that nurtures the heart and spirit, and Is a reminder to  continue and there are a lot of beautiful things unseen. the eyes longs to see what’s different and what’s real, making a lasting Impact In mind, It longs to sea rain after long time of draught.  but the things the eyes don’t like to see comes In front of It making It a challenge to Ignore It. the face becomes a combination of what’s seen and heard, providing a representation of the past, and expectations of the future. sometimes ears only hears chosen words and Ignore other positive words which leads to emptiness and Instability. the eyes on the contrary focuses on beautiful pictures and Ignores the others, the eyes are more truthful source than ears. the eyes are more reliable compass In life than ears, what’s heard could lead to lies and what’s seen leads to the truth. It looks Into the depth of things regardless of what they are thought to be. many times ...

  around 40 years ago, a family of 6 hardly saved to buy a decent home and at last found an affordable large house with a beautiful yard located In a quiet residential area.   when moving the mother heard from neighbors that there used to live a woman who make spells and black magic on other women, the mother didn’t believe the story and Insisted to buy the house anyway. years passed by the daughters pursued a decent majors In University, one of the daughters chooses to study accounting after graduating she got a reputable job In a nearby company. of course at the age of engagement there came a lot of men who proposed to her she refused them all and when trying getting to know her parents she wore ugly clothes on purpose. the girls continues to refuse proposals until she found her self 34 and unmarried her mental health get worse and her family tries to cure her from the traces of the spell put years ago. unfortunately the girl dies because of a sudden stroke af...

  a little observation of others increases the humanity, and decreases the ego by observing others happiness and sadness It transforms their feelings  and Increases the empathy. real empathy Is easily differentiated from a non real. the face especially eyes reveals the true meaning of the empathy shown, there may be traces of happiness In the expressions which are hard to hide. watching others broadens the minds horizons, learning new ways never thought of before, stepping In a new world different from the one In mind. many have valuable Impact they are unaware of, because of doing what’s normal In the mind, but what’s considered normal spreads light In others, and changes them for the better. but this light spread sometimes changes to darkness, because of difficult times It hard to spread light In others, and It will be obvious and hard to hide. during these times someone else will take the mission and return the good previously made. the light from others returns th...

  the room without people takes away from It’s beauty, with All  what’s In the room It’s still considered empty without a people to share with, and nothing else will fill It. what’s spreads the live In a room Is the warm feeling of companionship, the sounds of conversations and joy sadly these voices will not last forever and there must be a preparation for that. they may or may not be replaced, even If the replacement Isn’t accepted inside In reality there must be a kind of replacement to what’s lost. It’s most likely won’t completely replace the past but at least a way to cope with the loss.  when the replacement Is very similar to the loss It will be lost again, the root cause of the loss will provide a gateway to avoid It.  one wishes that loss Is a nightmare but It’s reality and must be lived, there Is a balance In live between loss and wins, and no state of them last. fake acceptance of reality come up before the real acceptance, acting leads to real...

treasure Isn’t only seen, there are many treasures hidden Inside the mind, like peaceful thoughts and not thinking low of anyone. as a person Is born this treasure Is well kept, but unfortunately as the live moves on the treasure Is  mixed up with other things taking It’s value away. It’s hard to separate the pure but It Isn’t Impossible, a wall Is built against anything that takes away the pureness, the wall Isn’t needed anymore as there Is no are no remains of impurity. the sea of thoughts Is clear and beautiful with nothing to make It turbulent, the bottom doesn’t Include any unnecessary Items, but does the sea of thoughts end? the answer Is absolutely no, the sea of thoughts Is an endless sea. everyday the sea of thoughts Is In a different state sometimes It’s still and sometimes It’s a collection of subsequent waves affected by the moon. the moon has a powerful force to change the state of the sea, causing every thoughts to change temporarily but after the ebb and fl...