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Everything In one box (كل شيء في صندوق واحد)

  مقالة مترجمة every box contains a constrained number of things, the four corners can’t contain everything, they are devided between several boxes with prioritization  the exploration begins In all of them to find what’s most Important, and each of them are equally Important the movement continues. If there wasn’t many boxes the search would be easier but at the same time what’s better wouldn’t be seen. some of them are bigger and have the best at the beginning and others saves the best for the last, there Is no sign with content Inside, everything comes as a surprise. even I there was a sign, the meaning could be misInterpreted to match what’s In the head. the reality Is In what’s chosen, and everyone picks the reality wanted, which feels like a dream with It’s lightness. كل صندوق يحتوي على عدد محدود من الأشياء، ولا يمكن للزوايا الأربع أن تستوعب كل شيء، فهي مقسمة بين عدة صناديق . يبدأ الاستكشاف في جميعها للعثور على الأهم، وكلها متساوية في الأهمية، ويستمر البحث لو لم تكن هنا...

why some ridicule everything

 the pshycology of ridiculing  most likely, we all have met the type of person who tend to ridicule everything In the surroundings, from objects to people. nothing seem beautiful or worthy In their eyes. for example: making fun of poems or habits. being around this type of people drains motivation and energy, their Irony will take away the beauty of thing. their justification would be that they are being realistic, but In fact they are just being pessimistic. but what could be the reasons behind this behaviour? It could be because of lack of confidence In the person so the person will ridicule everything that Is actually good to feel better. another common reason Is that the person actually Is critical by nature and don’t accept things easily.

how things appear

  on the outside everything Is a dimond that shines In the eyes of some. each one of us has specific standards. some standards grows with the person and some fade away. a human doesn’t require standards for everything  the right standards lift us high , they Increase self respect and others respect for us.  It doesn’t mean to be picky but It reflects our understanding of ourselves and what matches us.  this saves time wasted In the wrong situations even before getting Involved.  they are relevant to all aspects of our life, for private life and career. and It make It easier to take desicions based on the standards available. many pressures may be faced from many directions to lower the standard, those pressures need to be avoided, unless they need some amendments.

explicit Injustice

at the reception the line was crowded And I was patiently waiting for my turn there were a family In front of me who were from different cultural background.  execuse me how can I help you? the receptionist said with face expressions contrary with what she is trying to hide  there were the barrier of language she couldn’t understand them and they couldn’t fully understand her either.  not only the barrier of language was present but also the emotional barrier, the receptionist looked at them with dissrespect. It’s not only her fault to dissrespect people from different background but the environment that programed her that people should behave and dress In a certain way to be respected. but what’s respectful for some cultures might not be the case In other cultures.  peoples cultures are part of their pride and If their culture Isn’t respected their pride Is hurt